I finally understood why my 'teamwork' answers kept bombing

Been through a couple of interviews in the last 5 months. I kept getting variations of the same scenario question: "Your coworker is behind on their work, or they're struggling, or they need help but you also have your own deadlines. What do you do?" I thought I was nailing it by saying I'd jump in and help them finish because that's what good teammates do. Got rejected three times in a row with that answer. Turns out these questions aren't testing if you're nice. They're testing if you understand priorities, boundaries, and when to escalate. The interviewers don't want to hear that you'll absorb someone else's full workload forever. They want to know you can: 1. Help first (obviously) but not in a way that tanks your own work 2. Figure out if this is a one-time crunch or a pattern 3. Escalate to get them actual resources instead of just becoming their permanent backup Finally I said "I'd help them with the immediate task if I can do it without missing my own deadline. If it keeps happening I'd check in with them directly to see what's blocking them, and if it's a resource or training issue I'd loop in our manager so they can get proper support." It's not about proving you're selfless. It's about showing you can be supportive AND maintain your own output AND recognize when something needs management attention. I was optimizing for sounding like a team player when I should've been showing judgment. I kept making myself sound like a martyr who'd sacrifice everything to help. The other trap I've seen people fall into was sounding cold and transactional like they'd immediately report the person. Neither is what they want. If you've got past work examples where you actually did coach someone or helped coordinate across teams, use those. I went back through my resume, scored it on resumeworded to find bullets I'd forgotten about, and realized I had a whole project where I'd trained two people on a new system. Brought that up as a real example instead of making up theoretical niceness and the conversation went way better. I'm wondering if anyone else here keeps getting this question. What's your go-to answer??