My rule: If a company disappears for 3 weeks after the interview, they've already made their decision.

I see so many posts from people going crazy over a job they interviewed for weeks ago. Folks, you have to stop doing this to yourselves. Let's be honest: you're likely their backup plan. They're waiti

I see so many posts from people going crazy over a job they interviewed for weeks ago. Folks, you have to stop doing this to yourselves. Let's be honest: you're likely their backup plan. They're waiting for their desired candidate to accept the offer. A company that truly wants you moves quickly because they don't want to lose you to a competitor. So when you find yourself in complete silence from them, you have a few options. Here are 4 things you can do: Withdraw your application. Send a polite but firm email stating that you are withdrawing your candidacy due to the lack of communication. Honestly, if more of us did this, maybe recruiters would understand that this stalling tactic isn't okay. Forget about them completely. Don't bother sending another follow-up. Channel that energy into finding a company that respects your time. (This is a risky move) Use another job offer as use. Tell them you've received a competing offer and need a decision from them by a specific deadline. This might pressure them into making a decision. But be prepared for them to say no, so don't make this move unless you're truly ready to walk away from this offer. Send one last, brief follow-up. Ask for an update on their timeline. If they don't answer within 48 hours, you have your answer. Consider the matter closed. You have to value your time and mental health. Don't let a silent, unresponsive company live in your head rent-free. I hope this helps someone. Note: This specifically applies after you've already had an interview. If you've just submitted your application into the void, that's a whole other story. Edit: Keep applying until you’re actually on day 1 at a job. Shit, maybe even 2-4 weeks after you’ve started, because these companies have no shame and may trash you after 2 weeks This is the way. Everyone should move on before you even get to that first interview. Also, it's not ideal to withdraw your application or otherwise make your displeasure known. A new position might open up there in the near future that you'll want to be considered for. Plus, if you really want a job, does it matter if you aren't their first choice? Years after I was hired for the longest most stable job I've ever had, I learned that I only got it after their first choice turned it down. But I made lots of great connections and ended up excelling in the position, so it turned out to be a win for everyone (except the fool who turned it down). No shame in being the runner-up!